FATHER HAVE AN IMPORTANT ROLE IN THE CARE

One element in the ideal family is the presence of a father figure. The role of fathers have enormous influence in the family, mainly influence child development. Then, the extent of the presence of the father affect the child's behavior and happiness? According to the study, the relationship that exists between a child and his father turned out great influence on the formation of children’s self-esteem. Includes children's learning achievement in school, as well as a foundation for the formation of life satisfaction and relationships that can last a long time later when the child grows into adulthood. Father figure (whether father, stepfather, or father substitute another figure) can also be a strong incentive for all the good and evil in a child's life.

Of the father figure, children can gain an understanding of how to behave and take samples of masculine. For example, is about being a person who dared to do as it is, can also be associated with decision-making in life. While the figure of the mother, can take a lesson about feminine traits such as tenderness and affection. By getting a direct example in the figure of his parents, the child needs to be a whole person can be met. One example is whenever communicating with children, choose always said, polished, soft words, and not blasphemous or judgmental. That way, children feel valued so that could be inspired to do the same for others.

To be an ideal father, there is one simple tips. Each parent must be willing to make her a mirror. The trick is quite simple, namely by asking children about our shortcomings. With the mirror and the mirror shows our shortcomings, do not direct anger. Reflection should make it appear as a reminder to change yourself for the better. Do not ever feel pride to do it every day. Alternatively there is also another way, which is consider your baby, because he's a bit much is the result of the reflection of a reflection of you.

As a father, it is a necessity to be able to educate, to meet the needs and please the children. Dad is a leader who has a special responsibility and role is as head of the family. Every one in the family had the father in carrying out its responsibilities to meet the needs of families. In addition to earning a living, head of household is also obliged to give love to their children, and a wife who served educate educating children at home. So it's not just the responsibility of the father off to the development of the child, but the father had direct control over how to educate young mothers and what progress has been passed by the child. If it turns out the mother will receive the necessary development of new knowledge about how to educate children, the father shall be facilitated.