Parental Guidance Today

Fighting, drugs, sex, pornography and the like have become familiar with the dynamics of the fact that the children of today. News of it was flooded in the incessant media. Of course, there are many children who excel. They are like an oasis in the midst of the current problems of juvenile delinquency.

When faced with two different poles that. You as a parent to choose which one? I do not think any parent would choose the first group. Father and mother whose children were already mired there was certainly want to move to the second group.

Educating children in today's really not an easy job. Need guidance and precise formulation of clear and focused. Various methods are adopted so that children have a positive character.

For the Muslims, is actually already available guidance timeless era. That "Parenting Nabawi" that rests on divine majesty verses, the prophet life examples companions of the Prophet, tabi'in, until the men of skill exemplary current season.

The teachings of the prophet so complete and perfect. To create a great generation, we supervised even start from choosing a mate. The process of choosing a mate who is part of a strategy Islamic prepare the next generation, because the child can only be born of righteous parents who worships.

Some key steps to educate children the way the prophet we will present in the next article. Starting from before marriage (preparing parents), to educate people, educate faith, worship educate, educate physically, to educate children about sexuality. There may be some parents who ask, is not that a reference to the past? Can it be applied to educate children in this modern era?

There is a good father and mother reflect on the advice of Ibn Qayyim Al-Jauziyah following:

"Those who deliberately do not teach what is beneficial to his son and left him alone, then he has committed a great crime. Damages in children mostly come from the parents who left them, and do not teach religious obligations and his Sunnah. these parents neglecting their childhood, so they are not able to be useful to themselves and not helpful to parents. There are some parents who denounced his son for being disobedient. denied the child 'Father, you also have disobeyed I as a child, so now I disobeyed your parents after you. "