MOTHER IS A ROLE MODEL FOR CHILDREN

Mother is a symbol of love is very beautiful, God-given as a mercy to all mankind. Mother like a protective angel children of any crime that would hurt them. Even when humans are born without assistance of a mother, it seems they would be prepared to trade whatever they have for the presence of the beloved mother. So do not be surprised if a mother is always eminent kindness, both when he was still there or gone.

Almighty God who has created a closeness between mother and their children. Each child will be so comfortable to be next to his mother. Therefore, naturally also child sees his mother as an exemplary figure. Like a dry sponge that absorbs any water that is nearby, as are the children how to say innocently imitate and act like their mothers.

So no doubt, if the mother is like the first teachers of children. With the children's mothers also learn to recognize and study the world. Then how is our attitude as a mother, that we deserve to be a good role model for our children?

1.      Being a loving mother

The first and foremost be a good mother and loving. From this commendable attitude kids will recognize and imitate that only kindness and compassion is actually necessary if they want to be loved and accepted by others presence. Instead, they will also learn to distinguish that evil deeds will only hurt others and harm themselves.

2.      Friendly and respect others

In addition, teach children that everyone is different, and we must respect those differences. Teach the kids themselves that no one is happy we were treated rudely. So thanks, please, and sorry, had to get used to since they were little, so embedded in the minds of children that friendly attitude are important things that are needed to establish a friendship.

3.      Firm in principle

Introduce to our children that in this world there are also things that we can not bargain about it. An example is the problem of Islamic faith. Introduce them and why about the certainty of religious values ​​to must always obey.

4.      Take time for convenient communication

If we expect children to be obedient, then warm communication from us as a mother is very important to do. And in communication, child and mother also takes a lot of time. So a mother should take the time to build a quality relationship with their children.

Show your child that by communicating, we can be a good partner in the search for their kindness. If ultimately the advice to be given, then let them advance their ideas and thoughts, and do not give limits so they do not take the distance with us. With such they will make us as an example, because our ability to listeners who embrace and protect them, as they are hard.

5.      Be positive

As a mother, we should be cautious and say. Most children will imitate the material, thoughts, and even our way of speaking, especially when they are near us. Talks and positive attitude will give you a good example for them anyway, so that would become a positive person.

6.      Consistent

Of all the attitudes we give to our children, then it would be useless if we are not consistent with what we teach. Examples of good attitude that continuously and consistently, it will be easier conveyed to the child rather than merely advise or words that we speak to their ear.